Srijita wrote:Tweeg wrote:I'm in my late 20's, single, have some college education, have been steadily employed for over three years now, but have never had a girlfriend in my entire life! Real women need to step up their game... whatever game that may be.
Hey, the door swings both ways. I hardly ever meet available men. At work, married colleagues will sometimes ask: "Where were you when I was single?" But where are the nice, single guys looking for serious relationships? They need to step up
their game... fast.
<sigh> We're hanging out in places where the female populace would rather die rather than go into, places like GameStop and computer parts stores. And I think on those rare occassions that we do enter into a facility that caters to all types of people, like department stores, that we always go to departments where the other gender tends to avoid.
But perhaps you're right. I'm probably just as much at fault for my singulartity-ness as the still as yet unknown female is. Actually, I'd like to think I already know who she is, but I've never had the guts to go meet her in person via the local anime club I participate solely through the website of. Pretty sad I know. Member of a club that gets together once or twice a month to watch anime together as a group and I've never been to a single meeting in the eighteen months I've been a "active member". I've chatted with her back and fourth a little bit through the site's message board, but only about on-topic stuff. Yeah, I guess you're on to something there, need to step up the game... which leads to a stunning thought that has just occured to me!
The "game" in question is nothing more than simply finding a way to effectively communicate without hiding ones feelings! Which is going to be insanely difficult for me as I'm so practiced at hidind my true feelings and emotions from others that I do it without even trying.